What's the difference between “to frighten” and “to scare”?





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What's the difference between "to frighten" and "to scare"? I've heard both, but have never been able to figure out the difference.










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      What's the difference between "to frighten" and "to scare"? I've heard both, but have never been able to figure out the difference.










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      What's the difference between "to frighten" and "to scare"? I've heard both, but have never been able to figure out the difference.







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          I would suggest that 'frighten' is more intense than 'scare'. Although they are (very) similar, being scared is less serious than being frightened. That is definitely a second-order effect though; to a first approximation, they are (almost) equivalent.






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            Thank You, Jonathan. It was my suspicion, too, but I didn't dare to put it forth here.
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            I agree but it's the speech part that differs. Colloquially, one says scared, but often in writing, one reads frightened. I generally would not actually say frightened but would use it in certain written contexts. Also, in certain spoken contexts, I would only use scared of: to be scared of flying, to be scared of making a fool of oneself. But: to be frightened of one's own shadow [idiom]
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          The two words are synonyms and may be used interchangeably. Scare comes the Old Norse word skirra meaning "frighten."






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          • See "this," for more on "scary" and "this" for more on "frightening."
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          I would use frighten when I mean something with the hint of a surprise. Scare would mean something more gradual, as in "to scare with fear, uncertainty, and doubt (FUD)"






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            When I use frightened I use it like it has a bit of tense and suspicion in it.
            Scared just feels like it’s horrible and creepy.
            Also frightening is more severe than scared.






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              First of all, I agree with Jonathan Leffler — "frightening" is more intense than "scary," but many do not really make that distinction and use them quite interchangeably. Unlike using "can" when "may" should be used, most people will not correct another if they use "scary" when it is felt that "frightening" is a better choice of word. The difference between "scary" and "frightening" is not as well defined as "can" and "may." Furthermore, the difference between "scary" and "frightening" is not taught in school.



              Even if you want to help a person out by suggesting a more accurate descriptor, it isn't likely to go over too well. For example, if you were to meet someone who had survived the Paradise wildfire and they described it as "scary" and you corrected them by saying, "Do you mean frightened?" you're going to come across as a real jerk.



              Perhaps the best way to understand the difference between two words is to put them into context. I'll start with this:



              Hearing ghosts rattle their chains in a Halloween haunted house is scary; hearing someone yell, "Heil Hitler, Heil Trump" in a theater is frightening.





              I'll add to it if I think of others.






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                I would suggest that 'frighten' is more intense than 'scare'. Although they are (very) similar, being scared is less serious than being frightened. That is definitely a second-order effect though; to a first approximation, they are (almost) equivalent.






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                  Thank You, Jonathan. It was my suspicion, too, but I didn't dare to put it forth here.
                  – brilliant
                  Nov 28 '10 at 5:52






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                  I agree but it's the speech part that differs. Colloquially, one says scared, but often in writing, one reads frightened. I generally would not actually say frightened but would use it in certain written contexts. Also, in certain spoken contexts, I would only use scared of: to be scared of flying, to be scared of making a fool of oneself. But: to be frightened of one's own shadow [idiom]
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                I would suggest that 'frighten' is more intense than 'scare'. Although they are (very) similar, being scared is less serious than being frightened. That is definitely a second-order effect though; to a first approximation, they are (almost) equivalent.






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                  Thank You, Jonathan. It was my suspicion, too, but I didn't dare to put it forth here.
                  – brilliant
                  Nov 28 '10 at 5:52






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                  I agree but it's the speech part that differs. Colloquially, one says scared, but often in writing, one reads frightened. I generally would not actually say frightened but would use it in certain written contexts. Also, in certain spoken contexts, I would only use scared of: to be scared of flying, to be scared of making a fool of oneself. But: to be frightened of one's own shadow [idiom]
                  – Lambie
                  Aug 27 at 13:49















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                I would suggest that 'frighten' is more intense than 'scare'. Although they are (very) similar, being scared is less serious than being frightened. That is definitely a second-order effect though; to a first approximation, they are (almost) equivalent.






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                I would suggest that 'frighten' is more intense than 'scare'. Although they are (very) similar, being scared is less serious than being frightened. That is definitely a second-order effect though; to a first approximation, they are (almost) equivalent.







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                  Thank You, Jonathan. It was my suspicion, too, but I didn't dare to put it forth here.
                  – brilliant
                  Nov 28 '10 at 5:52






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                  I agree but it's the speech part that differs. Colloquially, one says scared, but often in writing, one reads frightened. I generally would not actually say frightened but would use it in certain written contexts. Also, in certain spoken contexts, I would only use scared of: to be scared of flying, to be scared of making a fool of oneself. But: to be frightened of one's own shadow [idiom]
                  – Lambie
                  Aug 27 at 13:49
















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                  Thank You, Jonathan. It was my suspicion, too, but I didn't dare to put it forth here.
                  – brilliant
                  Nov 28 '10 at 5:52






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                  I agree but it's the speech part that differs. Colloquially, one says scared, but often in writing, one reads frightened. I generally would not actually say frightened but would use it in certain written contexts. Also, in certain spoken contexts, I would only use scared of: to be scared of flying, to be scared of making a fool of oneself. But: to be frightened of one's own shadow [idiom]
                  – Lambie
                  Aug 27 at 13:49










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                Thank You, Jonathan. It was my suspicion, too, but I didn't dare to put it forth here.
                – brilliant
                Nov 28 '10 at 5:52




                Thank You, Jonathan. It was my suspicion, too, but I didn't dare to put it forth here.
                – brilliant
                Nov 28 '10 at 5:52




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                I agree but it's the speech part that differs. Colloquially, one says scared, but often in writing, one reads frightened. I generally would not actually say frightened but would use it in certain written contexts. Also, in certain spoken contexts, I would only use scared of: to be scared of flying, to be scared of making a fool of oneself. But: to be frightened of one's own shadow [idiom]
                – Lambie
                Aug 27 at 13:49






                I agree but it's the speech part that differs. Colloquially, one says scared, but often in writing, one reads frightened. I generally would not actually say frightened but would use it in certain written contexts. Also, in certain spoken contexts, I would only use scared of: to be scared of flying, to be scared of making a fool of oneself. But: to be frightened of one's own shadow [idiom]
                – Lambie
                Aug 27 at 13:49














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                The two words are synonyms and may be used interchangeably. Scare comes the Old Norse word skirra meaning "frighten."






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                • See "this," for more on "scary" and "this" for more on "frightening."
                  – Lisa Beck
                  1 hour ago

















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                The two words are synonyms and may be used interchangeably. Scare comes the Old Norse word skirra meaning "frighten."






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                • See "this," for more on "scary" and "this" for more on "frightening."
                  – Lisa Beck
                  1 hour ago















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                The two words are synonyms and may be used interchangeably. Scare comes the Old Norse word skirra meaning "frighten."






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                The two words are synonyms and may be used interchangeably. Scare comes the Old Norse word skirra meaning "frighten."







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                • See "this," for more on "scary" and "this" for more on "frightening."
                  – Lisa Beck
                  1 hour ago




















                • See "this," for more on "scary" and "this" for more on "frightening."
                  – Lisa Beck
                  1 hour ago


















                See "this," for more on "scary" and "this" for more on "frightening."
                – Lisa Beck
                1 hour ago






                See "this," for more on "scary" and "this" for more on "frightening."
                – Lisa Beck
                1 hour ago












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                I would use frighten when I mean something with the hint of a surprise. Scare would mean something more gradual, as in "to scare with fear, uncertainty, and doubt (FUD)"






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                  I would use frighten when I mean something with the hint of a surprise. Scare would mean something more gradual, as in "to scare with fear, uncertainty, and doubt (FUD)"






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                    I would use frighten when I mean something with the hint of a surprise. Scare would mean something more gradual, as in "to scare with fear, uncertainty, and doubt (FUD)"






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                    I would use frighten when I mean something with the hint of a surprise. Scare would mean something more gradual, as in "to scare with fear, uncertainty, and doubt (FUD)"







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                        When I use frightened I use it like it has a bit of tense and suspicion in it.
                        Scared just feels like it’s horrible and creepy.
                        Also frightening is more severe than scared.






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                          When I use frightened I use it like it has a bit of tense and suspicion in it.
                          Scared just feels like it’s horrible and creepy.
                          Also frightening is more severe than scared.






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                            When I use frightened I use it like it has a bit of tense and suspicion in it.
                            Scared just feels like it’s horrible and creepy.
                            Also frightening is more severe than scared.






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                            When I use frightened I use it like it has a bit of tense and suspicion in it.
                            Scared just feels like it’s horrible and creepy.
                            Also frightening is more severe than scared.







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                                First of all, I agree with Jonathan Leffler — "frightening" is more intense than "scary," but many do not really make that distinction and use them quite interchangeably. Unlike using "can" when "may" should be used, most people will not correct another if they use "scary" when it is felt that "frightening" is a better choice of word. The difference between "scary" and "frightening" is not as well defined as "can" and "may." Furthermore, the difference between "scary" and "frightening" is not taught in school.



                                Even if you want to help a person out by suggesting a more accurate descriptor, it isn't likely to go over too well. For example, if you were to meet someone who had survived the Paradise wildfire and they described it as "scary" and you corrected them by saying, "Do you mean frightened?" you're going to come across as a real jerk.



                                Perhaps the best way to understand the difference between two words is to put them into context. I'll start with this:



                                Hearing ghosts rattle their chains in a Halloween haunted house is scary; hearing someone yell, "Heil Hitler, Heil Trump" in a theater is frightening.





                                I'll add to it if I think of others.






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                                  First of all, I agree with Jonathan Leffler — "frightening" is more intense than "scary," but many do not really make that distinction and use them quite interchangeably. Unlike using "can" when "may" should be used, most people will not correct another if they use "scary" when it is felt that "frightening" is a better choice of word. The difference between "scary" and "frightening" is not as well defined as "can" and "may." Furthermore, the difference between "scary" and "frightening" is not taught in school.



                                  Even if you want to help a person out by suggesting a more accurate descriptor, it isn't likely to go over too well. For example, if you were to meet someone who had survived the Paradise wildfire and they described it as "scary" and you corrected them by saying, "Do you mean frightened?" you're going to come across as a real jerk.



                                  Perhaps the best way to understand the difference between two words is to put them into context. I'll start with this:



                                  Hearing ghosts rattle their chains in a Halloween haunted house is scary; hearing someone yell, "Heil Hitler, Heil Trump" in a theater is frightening.





                                  I'll add to it if I think of others.






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                                    First of all, I agree with Jonathan Leffler — "frightening" is more intense than "scary," but many do not really make that distinction and use them quite interchangeably. Unlike using "can" when "may" should be used, most people will not correct another if they use "scary" when it is felt that "frightening" is a better choice of word. The difference between "scary" and "frightening" is not as well defined as "can" and "may." Furthermore, the difference between "scary" and "frightening" is not taught in school.



                                    Even if you want to help a person out by suggesting a more accurate descriptor, it isn't likely to go over too well. For example, if you were to meet someone who had survived the Paradise wildfire and they described it as "scary" and you corrected them by saying, "Do you mean frightened?" you're going to come across as a real jerk.



                                    Perhaps the best way to understand the difference between two words is to put them into context. I'll start with this:



                                    Hearing ghosts rattle their chains in a Halloween haunted house is scary; hearing someone yell, "Heil Hitler, Heil Trump" in a theater is frightening.





                                    I'll add to it if I think of others.






                                    share|improve this answer












                                    First of all, I agree with Jonathan Leffler — "frightening" is more intense than "scary," but many do not really make that distinction and use them quite interchangeably. Unlike using "can" when "may" should be used, most people will not correct another if they use "scary" when it is felt that "frightening" is a better choice of word. The difference between "scary" and "frightening" is not as well defined as "can" and "may." Furthermore, the difference between "scary" and "frightening" is not taught in school.



                                    Even if you want to help a person out by suggesting a more accurate descriptor, it isn't likely to go over too well. For example, if you were to meet someone who had survived the Paradise wildfire and they described it as "scary" and you corrected them by saying, "Do you mean frightened?" you're going to come across as a real jerk.



                                    Perhaps the best way to understand the difference between two words is to put them into context. I'll start with this:



                                    Hearing ghosts rattle their chains in a Halloween haunted house is scary; hearing someone yell, "Heil Hitler, Heil Trump" in a theater is frightening.





                                    I'll add to it if I think of others.







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