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I was trying to parse out whether separating yourself from vanity can be a release from a populist mindset and a transition to a more mature mindset. My thesis is that being less vain is more mature.



But then I thought of perfectly happy seeming people I know who are older and who still care about their appearance. I imagined if I were to ask them why they care so much they might say that the effort they put into looking good is a form of expression through, fashion, makeup, etc.



My question: what would be a good word to describe a healthy or creative habit of vanity?



I found vanity’s definition to be too negative and not an endearing term.










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    'Self esteem' describes the act of considering oneself to be worth something but in a sensible and balanced way, not over-estimating one's own worth. Neither 'vanity' nor 'self esteem' are restricted to the personal appearance and context is required to indicate the area within which the two characteristics operate.
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  • Can you talk more about how you hope to use this word? You could go with 'self-expression' to talk about the act of expressing creativity through their attention to appearance. It's not a single word, but you could say 'she takes pride in her appearance' to replace 'she is vain', which has fewer negative connotations.
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  • The single-word-requests information page has a checklist at the bottom. Answering the questions in the checklist should make it easier for others to help.
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  • I think you may not understand vanity properly if you think taking care in one’s personal appearance makes you vain. “excessive pride in or admiration of one's own appearance or achievements
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I was trying to parse out whether separating yourself from vanity can be a release from a populist mindset and a transition to a more mature mindset. My thesis is that being less vain is more mature.



But then I thought of perfectly happy seeming people I know who are older and who still care about their appearance. I imagined if I were to ask them why they care so much they might say that the effort they put into looking good is a form of expression through, fashion, makeup, etc.



My question: what would be a good word to describe a healthy or creative habit of vanity?



I found vanity’s definition to be too negative and not an endearing term.










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    'Self esteem' describes the act of considering oneself to be worth something but in a sensible and balanced way, not over-estimating one's own worth. Neither 'vanity' nor 'self esteem' are restricted to the personal appearance and context is required to indicate the area within which the two characteristics operate.
    – Nigel J
    Sep 19 at 12:06












  • Can you talk more about how you hope to use this word? You could go with 'self-expression' to talk about the act of expressing creativity through their attention to appearance. It's not a single word, but you could say 'she takes pride in her appearance' to replace 'she is vain', which has fewer negative connotations.
    – AlannaRose
    Sep 21 at 22:57










  • The single-word-requests information page has a checklist at the bottom. Answering the questions in the checklist should make it easier for others to help.
    – AlannaRose
    Sep 21 at 23:21












  • I think you may not understand vanity properly if you think taking care in one’s personal appearance makes you vain. “excessive pride in or admiration of one's own appearance or achievements
    – Jim
    Sep 22 at 0:20













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I was trying to parse out whether separating yourself from vanity can be a release from a populist mindset and a transition to a more mature mindset. My thesis is that being less vain is more mature.



But then I thought of perfectly happy seeming people I know who are older and who still care about their appearance. I imagined if I were to ask them why they care so much they might say that the effort they put into looking good is a form of expression through, fashion, makeup, etc.



My question: what would be a good word to describe a healthy or creative habit of vanity?



I found vanity’s definition to be too negative and not an endearing term.










share|improve this question















I was trying to parse out whether separating yourself from vanity can be a release from a populist mindset and a transition to a more mature mindset. My thesis is that being less vain is more mature.



But then I thought of perfectly happy seeming people I know who are older and who still care about their appearance. I imagined if I were to ask them why they care so much they might say that the effort they put into looking good is a form of expression through, fashion, makeup, etc.



My question: what would be a good word to describe a healthy or creative habit of vanity?



I found vanity’s definition to be too negative and not an endearing term.







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    'Self esteem' describes the act of considering oneself to be worth something but in a sensible and balanced way, not over-estimating one's own worth. Neither 'vanity' nor 'self esteem' are restricted to the personal appearance and context is required to indicate the area within which the two characteristics operate.
    – Nigel J
    Sep 19 at 12:06












  • Can you talk more about how you hope to use this word? You could go with 'self-expression' to talk about the act of expressing creativity through their attention to appearance. It's not a single word, but you could say 'she takes pride in her appearance' to replace 'she is vain', which has fewer negative connotations.
    – AlannaRose
    Sep 21 at 22:57










  • The single-word-requests information page has a checklist at the bottom. Answering the questions in the checklist should make it easier for others to help.
    – AlannaRose
    Sep 21 at 23:21












  • I think you may not understand vanity properly if you think taking care in one’s personal appearance makes you vain. “excessive pride in or admiration of one's own appearance or achievements
    – Jim
    Sep 22 at 0:20














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    'Self esteem' describes the act of considering oneself to be worth something but in a sensible and balanced way, not over-estimating one's own worth. Neither 'vanity' nor 'self esteem' are restricted to the personal appearance and context is required to indicate the area within which the two characteristics operate.
    – Nigel J
    Sep 19 at 12:06












  • Can you talk more about how you hope to use this word? You could go with 'self-expression' to talk about the act of expressing creativity through their attention to appearance. It's not a single word, but you could say 'she takes pride in her appearance' to replace 'she is vain', which has fewer negative connotations.
    – AlannaRose
    Sep 21 at 22:57










  • The single-word-requests information page has a checklist at the bottom. Answering the questions in the checklist should make it easier for others to help.
    – AlannaRose
    Sep 21 at 23:21












  • I think you may not understand vanity properly if you think taking care in one’s personal appearance makes you vain. “excessive pride in or admiration of one's own appearance or achievements
    – Jim
    Sep 22 at 0:20








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'Self esteem' describes the act of considering oneself to be worth something but in a sensible and balanced way, not over-estimating one's own worth. Neither 'vanity' nor 'self esteem' are restricted to the personal appearance and context is required to indicate the area within which the two characteristics operate.
– Nigel J
Sep 19 at 12:06






'Self esteem' describes the act of considering oneself to be worth something but in a sensible and balanced way, not over-estimating one's own worth. Neither 'vanity' nor 'self esteem' are restricted to the personal appearance and context is required to indicate the area within which the two characteristics operate.
– Nigel J
Sep 19 at 12:06














Can you talk more about how you hope to use this word? You could go with 'self-expression' to talk about the act of expressing creativity through their attention to appearance. It's not a single word, but you could say 'she takes pride in her appearance' to replace 'she is vain', which has fewer negative connotations.
– AlannaRose
Sep 21 at 22:57




Can you talk more about how you hope to use this word? You could go with 'self-expression' to talk about the act of expressing creativity through their attention to appearance. It's not a single word, but you could say 'she takes pride in her appearance' to replace 'she is vain', which has fewer negative connotations.
– AlannaRose
Sep 21 at 22:57












The single-word-requests information page has a checklist at the bottom. Answering the questions in the checklist should make it easier for others to help.
– AlannaRose
Sep 21 at 23:21






The single-word-requests information page has a checklist at the bottom. Answering the questions in the checklist should make it easier for others to help.
– AlannaRose
Sep 21 at 23:21














I think you may not understand vanity properly if you think taking care in one’s personal appearance makes you vain. “excessive pride in or admiration of one's own appearance or achievements
– Jim
Sep 22 at 0:20




I think you may not understand vanity properly if you think taking care in one’s personal appearance makes you vain. “excessive pride in or admiration of one's own appearance or achievements
– Jim
Sep 22 at 0:20










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How about 'self-admiration'? I'd say it's more P.C. and a bit nicer.



It's a bit like 'self-esteem', but closer in meaning to vanity.



https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/self-admiration



'self-admiration'- The admiration of oneself; undue pride in oneself or one's achievements






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How about 'self-admiration'? I'd say it's more P.C. and a bit nicer.



It's a bit like 'self-esteem', but closer in meaning to vanity.



https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/self-admiration



'self-admiration'- The admiration of oneself; undue pride in oneself or one's achievements






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How about 'self-admiration'? I'd say it's more P.C. and a bit nicer.



It's a bit like 'self-esteem', but closer in meaning to vanity.



https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/self-admiration



'self-admiration'- The admiration of oneself; undue pride in oneself or one's achievements






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How about 'self-admiration'? I'd say it's more P.C. and a bit nicer.



It's a bit like 'self-esteem', but closer in meaning to vanity.



https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/self-admiration



'self-admiration'- The admiration of oneself; undue pride in oneself or one's achievements






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How about 'self-admiration'? I'd say it's more P.C. and a bit nicer.



It's a bit like 'self-esteem', but closer in meaning to vanity.



https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/self-admiration



'self-admiration'- The admiration of oneself; undue pride in oneself or one's achievements







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  • Not a bad answer at all! It would be greatly improved if it was edited so it was backed up with sources and references, which are expected here on EL&U. Take a look at how to answer.
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  • Not a bad answer at all! It would be greatly improved if it was edited so it was backed up with sources and references, which are expected here on EL&U. Take a look at how to answer.
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Not a bad answer at all! It would be greatly improved if it was edited so it was backed up with sources and references, which are expected here on EL&U. Take a look at how to answer.
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@tmgr thanks! I'll edit.
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